Saturday, December 31, 2011

The Bucket List (Stacy’s)

This was (kind of) inspired by Sandman’s list. Truth is, it started as a 40 by 40 list. The good thing about having a list with a finite end, is it makes you choose more realistic goals. And I firmly believe that real goals should be both realistic and have a definite end. The bad part is, however, that establishing strict time lines (before making your list) doesn’t let you dream big.
Plus, you have to think of 40 things. I’m turning 39 in a couple of days and I haven’t even finished the damn list (which I started writing a little more than a year ago).
So, thanks to Sandman, I’m removing the arbitrary time limit. I pulled out my notebook with my original 40 by 40 and I’m crossing some stuff off, letting myself rethink some of them and just doing a general edit.  I warn you. It’s not a very exciting list. (Oh, and it’s in not in order of importance. It’s in order of when-I-thought-of-stuff.)
  1. Do an open mike night (comedy).
  2. Win a “real” trophy at a big tournament.
  3. Black belt. :)
  4. Participate in one amateur MMA fight. (Rethinking this one because of #27.)
  5. Reach 160 lbs.
  6. Teach a women’s self defense class.
  7. Show a piece of artwork in a gallery.
  8. Lead a seminar or give a presentation. (Killed it.)
  9. Read the Bible. (Mainly because there’s a couple of politicians that I’m pretty sure are wrong about some of the stuff they say is in there. I really need to read it straight through to be sure, though.)
  10. Do a chin-up.
  11. Learn passable Japanese. (Right now, I can introduce myself, count to 20, and yell out random colors and nouns. Oh, I also have a decent collection of swear words my elder daughter taught me.)
  12. Visit Toronto. (I heard it’s just like a foreign country up there.)
  13. Participate in NASKA for a season. (Was planning to do this one at 40 – it’s right after an age division break.)
  14. Build a working trebuchet.
  15. Meet my half brother in person. (Haven’t seen him since I was 2 or something. And how messed up is it that I thought of this after building a trebuchet and visiting Toronto?)
  16. Get over the whole bridge phobia thing. (It’s getting old and I want to be able to go places -- like St. Louis or Iowa -- whenever I want. )
  17. Go horseback riding. (I’ve done this before as a child. It’s just been a really long time and I thought it would be cool to do it again.)
  18. Go skinny dipping.
  19. Meet Jillian Michaels. (She is so freakin’ cool.)
  20. Do a sexy dance for my hubby. ::blush::
  21. Participate in a Karaoke night at a bar.
  22. Inspire someone to do something really awesome.
  23. Find more time to puppy pile – ongoing. (“Puppy piles” are where the whole family flops on a single couch or the big bed in the parent’s room to watch TV or read a book together. Not particularly exciting…but it’s nice.)
  24. Throw a Halloween party.
  25. Learn to wrap presents.
  26. Learn to rap. (Word.)
  27. Get eyebrow pierced. (Rethinking this one. See #4.)
  28. Get a portrait tattoo of my dad.
  29. Go canoeing.
  30. Full splits.
  31. Wear a cute Japanese school girl cosplay costume.
  32. Added 12/31/2011: Find some really great women martial artists and interview them for the blog. (I didn’t say female because, although there are talented girls out there, I want to find adult women those girls can look up to and use as inspiration on their journey into adulthood.)
  33. Added 12/31/2011: Win one Grands. (Just one…I’m not greedy.)
  34. Added 12/31/2011: Buy an external mic for my video camera. (So, when I do #32, people can hear it.)
  35. Added 1/15/2012: Visit Okinawa.
Just for the record, I’m also rethinking #26. I would like to know how to rap, but I’m not really sure if I really want to learn how to do it. (If that makes sense.) I feel the same way about tango dancing and a half dozen other things.